Is faithfulness a dead concept? What do you think…?
Written by Lady PJ
Aka Philessa Hooks Jenkins
All Rights Reserved
11/7/2014 6:46:30 PM
Is faithfulness a
dead concept? We see people on the
“Maury show,” “Jerry Springer Show,” and “Steve Wilkos Show;” it kind of makes you wonder-are
there any faithful people left in the world?
We live in a world where marriage is no longer off limits and a ring on
your finger has very little meaning except a pretty piece of jewelry. You can tell someone that you’re married and
their reply is, ‘what does that have to do with me?’ Betrayal of trust is an open concept that
lovers don’t mind openly sharing to live audiences without hesitation. They don’t care that it leaves their lovers
to live with the humiliation and shame of knowing that the whole world is now
aware of that betrayal. Maybe that’s
what the intent really is, to inflict harm; as much harm as possible before
letting go of a lost or broken relationship.
I don’t think
that you should need a ring to honor a promise of faithfulness. Once you say that we’re together and in “a relationship”
faithfulness should be a standard thing.
It comes with the title of “togetherness.” You know when you start saying those “we”
words or our; our apartment, our kids, our car, or we’re going, we’re doing,
etc… The problem is that most people don’t
really know what a relationship is or the line has yet to be defined on the
relationship.
I think that in
the beginning of any relationship there should be an understanding; we’re just
sex, or we’re exclusive, and we’re a couple.
Unfortunately, most people forget to establish these simple guidelines
that eventually lead to painstaking revelations later on. He says, “We were never in a relationship,”
because to him it was just sex. She says
that “We were in a relationship for a year and a half.” This sort of thing
happens all the time but can simple be avoided by having a one minute
discussion that starts with, “are we in a relationship or is this just sex?” Can you see how easy that was and it can so
keep you from falling for Mr. or Mrs. Wrong.
What do you
think? Is faithfulness forever gone? I mean really think about it; have you ever
cheated on a relationship because if you have you’ve answered my question. As always, I’m Lady PJ, much love to you all.
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