I always think about the history I leave behind. Like for instance my child, what life lessons am I leaving her. Am I teaching my daughter to be strong and fierce or to live in fear. What you have to think is that children don't always learn by what we say but mostly by what they see and how we treat them. I discovered with my daughter I wasn't being the best mother I could because I was sheltering her too much and I was giving out all this negative energy. She in turn was giving it back to all those around her and I realized that I was at fault because she was my child and my responsibility. Children have to learn; they have to fail, they have to succeed, but most of all they have to know that it's alright no matter what because we will always love and support them. Now I watch my words and I watch her reaction to my words. I want her to understand why I do something and for us to discuss it if she disagree's or does not understand. With any relationship communication is key, and it's no different with your children (no matter their age). I want my daughter to grow up feeling loved, understood, and most of all strong. I don't want her to live a life of fear because I am afraid of what this world will bring to her. It is my hope that one day she will do the same for her child or children.
Then I think about my relationship with my life partner, he is absolutely amazing mind you. What am I leaving with him. Is he thinking of the joy I bring to his life. Am I doing all I can to be a help mate and am I an understanding partner. Will he think of the good things we share in our lives when he's not with me. When he's away from me is he wondering about my smile, my laughter, or the love we share. These are questions that I have in my mind because I want to give goodness to those around me in the hope that that goodness with be returned in kind.
Today, I hope that you will think about the history you're leaving behind. What impressions are you giving off to people and are you getting back what you put out? If you want a different result in your life then you have to some times change the way you're doing things.
Peace and love to you, I am Lady PJ and information is power so be informed.
Then I think about my relationship with my life partner, he is absolutely amazing mind you. What am I leaving with him. Is he thinking of the joy I bring to his life. Am I doing all I can to be a help mate and am I an understanding partner. Will he think of the good things we share in our lives when he's not with me. When he's away from me is he wondering about my smile, my laughter, or the love we share. These are questions that I have in my mind because I want to give goodness to those around me in the hope that that goodness with be returned in kind.
Today, I hope that you will think about the history you're leaving behind. What impressions are you giving off to people and are you getting back what you put out? If you want a different result in your life then you have to some times change the way you're doing things.
Peace and love to you, I am Lady PJ and information is power so be informed.
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