You Got Dumped by Philessa Hooks Jenkins aka Lady PJ

You Got Dumped

Written by Philessa Hooks Jenkins

Aka Lady PJ

Copyright 2/19/2014

     Okay, you got dumped by your boyfriend or girlfriend and you feel lost; now what?  I say, it’s time to just love you and heal.  Heartbreak can be so hard to handle and it really does take a lot out of you; so mourn for a little while and then pick yourself up. 

     How do you pick yourself up? It’s different for everyone. For instance I like to laugh so I usually watch some comedy; that always works for me.  You could throw darts at his or her picture but that would only fuel your flame and build hatred; unless you do it to vent.  It’s like a release then.  The worst thing you could do is keep calling them, or keep going to see them.  I know it hurts but you only look like a lost puppy that nobody wants.  Do you really want to have this kind of image?

     I tell you what you can do, how about writing a goodbye letter to them with all the things they did to you then burning it. It would be like a release party where you’re the only attendant. Hey, you think following them around is better; that makes you the stalker guy or gal.  Yes, you’re now at a different level of pathetic. You got dumped and if you don’t stop following them you could be charged with stalking even cyber stalking.

     While I do understand that you’re hurting you have to understand that you can’t stay there.  You have to get up and live; life goes on. Although, I don’t suggest that you find a new partner yet. You really should take some time for you.  I like to be pampered; so go get your nails done, your hair done, and buy a new outfit or two.  I’m a shoe shopper and yes I have a lot of shoes. Laugh Out Loud! I am the “pick-me-up Queen, Honey!” Pick me up another pair of shoes; sometimes I just make up a reason to go shoe shopping. Enough about me let me get back to the topic!

     Let me just say that in time all sorrow heals or subsides.  You eventually have to realize that this relationship is gone but in time you’ll find a new love; that hopefully will admire and adore you. For now just be yourself, enjoy your life, and appreciate the things you have; like no more drama. I’m your girl, Lady PJ, much love to you all.