You
Got Dumped
Written
by Philessa Hooks Jenkins
Aka
Lady PJ
Copyright
2/19/2014
Okay, you got
dumped by your boyfriend or girlfriend and you feel lost; now what? I say, it’s time to just love you and
heal. Heartbreak can be so hard to
handle and it really does take a lot out of you; so mourn for a little while
and then pick yourself up.
How do you
pick yourself up? It’s different for everyone. For instance I like to laugh so
I usually watch some comedy; that always works for me. You could throw darts at his or her picture
but that would only fuel your flame and build hatred; unless you do it to
vent. It’s like a release then. The worst thing you could do is keep calling
them, or keep going to see them. I know
it hurts but you only look like a lost puppy that nobody wants. Do you really want to have this kind of
image?
I tell you
what you can do, how about writing a goodbye letter to them with all the things
they did to you then burning it. It would be like a release party where you’re
the only attendant. Hey, you think following them around is better; that makes you
the stalker guy or gal. Yes, you’re now
at a different level of pathetic. You got dumped and if you don’t stop
following them you could be charged with stalking even cyber stalking.
While I do
understand that you’re hurting you have to understand that you can’t stay there. You have to get up and live; life goes on.
Although, I don’t suggest that you find a new partner yet. You really should
take some time for you. I like to be
pampered; so go get your nails done, your hair done, and buy a new outfit or
two. I’m a shoe shopper and yes I have a
lot of shoes. Laugh Out Loud! I am the “pick-me-up Queen, Honey!” Pick me up
another pair of shoes; sometimes I just make up a reason to go shoe shopping.
Enough about me let me get back to the topic!
Let me just
say that in time all sorrow heals or subsides.
You eventually have to realize that this relationship is gone but in
time you’ll find a new love; that hopefully will admire and adore you. For now just
be yourself, enjoy your life, and appreciate the things you have; like no more
drama. I’m your girl, Lady PJ, much love to you all.
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